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Thursday, October 3, 2013

To stay alone or have a family?

I've always had this dilemma of whether to stay alone or have a family in the future. And I did a comparison. Even so, I still can't decide which is better for me... Damn this is hard.
the contrasts of staying alone is as below:

Perks of staying alone
Jerks of staying alone
ü  Do whatever I want at home
ü  Less things to clear/pack
ü  Controls all décor, placing, cleanliness etc
ü  Can go out/come back as and when.
ü  Peace from quietness
ü  No accommodation/compromising needed.
ü  No squabbles
ü  All food=mine
ü  Can walk around naked/ with undies only.
ü  Spacious/comfy.
ü  No need to vie for TV, wifi, radio, phone, toilet and washing machine.
ü  No sharingggg
ü  Sing and dance anytime, anywhere.
ü  Can express emotions freely.
ü  Less household expenses.
ü  Can ask anyone to pop over anytime~
ü  Nobody will touch, take, use, and misplace my possessions.
ü  Less misunderstandings, miscommunications etc
ü  Independence built.
ü  Will not have the problem of forgetting keys (since I’ll be the one who locks the doors)
ü  Less complicated.
û   Nobody to help me chase away cockroaches, birds, creepy crawlies, etc );
û   Nobody to talk to before bedtime
û   Should any emergency take place (eg. Heart attack, fire, breakdowns), nobody can save my ass.
û   Less home-cook food when I’m busy.
û   Financially-burdened to support the household expenses all by myself.
û   Nobody to sleep with.
û   Nobody as accompany during scary nights.
û   Nobody to help me check if I forgotten to off the gas stove, lights, fans, lock the doors or close windows.
û   Nobody to help me move furniture or heavy shits.
û   Nobody to finish leftover food.
û   Nobody to help me zip my dress/skirt.
û   When any technology/electrical appliances breakdown, I’m doomed.
û   Nobody to call me up when my alarm fails me.
û   No alibi if I’m at home but suspected for a crime.
û   Nobody to help me do shit if I’m sick or injured.


I really earn to live alon, but it ain't as simple as it seems uh.

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