inner thoughts

for your info, this post is probably gonna be a rather lengthy post without pics.
have lots of feelings in me now.
ya know, i have this question i mind : for what reason will you dislike or get pissed with somebody?
for me, it's rather complicated but simple (lol) i get irritated towards unreasonable, inconsiderate, self-centered, and disrespectful behaviors. in a way that i think that socializing and treating the people in your life should be mutual, whereby if you don't want others to treat you that way, then don't treat others like that too. being self-centered, unreasonable and inconsiderate is a total turn off because if you can't put yourself in other people's shoes, and start having that king/queen/princess/prince type of attitude (those type that they think they can treat others as they wish like the whole world owes them), then i guess it will be pretty unfair and unacceptable for that person. oh well, unless that person really owe you lah~
similarly for being disrespectful. if you disrespect me, i will disrespect you in return (:
BUTTTT, if you have a reasonable, considerate, and respectful attitude, i will definitely be nice and like you (:
in any other words, of course, this is the few traits that i value alot~ haha, each of us are different in terms of this, so yeah, you don't need to feel the same way as i do (:
something else to add on, you know there's this famous saying that goes : if a person hates you, it just means that he/she is jealous of you. 
LOL, I TOTALLY DISAGREEEEEEEEEEEEEE heh. i mean like of course, being jealous then hating someone is one of the reasons towards hatred lah, but that doesn't mean that all reasons towards hating/displeasure is due to jealousy. i mean like hey, if the other party did something wrong towards you, or have a character that you dislike/ cannot tahan (this doesn't mean they are inferior lah), you will also have displeasure towards them one right~~~~ gosh, like seriously? who says hates are definitely solely due to jealousy... =.=
anyways, i think i will end it here. anything else that i wanna update i will do it some other day (:
saying it again, those are my thoughts, agree/disagree is up to you (:
xoxo